October 20, 2006
This evening, we, like so many other Americans, are going out to dinner. But we aren’t going just anywhere… we are going to Yen Ching. Yen Ching is our “Date Restaurant.” In other words, it was our favorite restaurant to eat at when we were dating and engaged to be married. All the wait staff ...
Family and Friends, Relationship Advice
October 16, 2006
So who is the wedding for? Some would argue that the wedding ceremony is for the bride and groom. There is truth in that statement; however, think about this: If the wedding is primarily for the two people getting married then why invite anyone else? Why not just go to the courthouse, say your vows, ...
Family and Friends, Relationship Advice, Tips and Ideas, Wedding Day Advice
October 13, 2006
The other day, we met someone in the Fort Wayne area who planned her wedding in just two days. Don’t you think that is amazing? Brides and grooms are typically instructed to devote two full years to planning their weddings. As for us, we would never instruct a couple of lovers to wait two years ...
Relationship Advice, Tips and Ideas, Wedding Budget, Wedding Day Advice
October 9, 2006
One of our favorite assignments our counselor had us do in preparation for marriage was to answer the following question: What do you like about (insert fiance or fiancee’s name here) and why do you want to marry him/her? This is a great exercise. With all the stresses of being engaged, it is helpful to ...
Relationship Advice, Tips and Ideas
October 8, 2006
Have you ever been approached by someone looking like a bum asking for gas money? It has happened to us a number of times – most recently to Tim today. He was going to the library when a guy approached him asking for food. Tim, who chooses not to hand out money, took the guy ...
Off-Topic, Relationship Advice, Tips and Ideas
October 6, 2006
Our society pushes the idea that the wedding is all about the bride. It is her day, we are told. Nearly everything about the wedding is catered to the bride so that the whole wedding experience becomes nauseatingly pink with lace and flowers and various other frills. The groom is apparently just extra baggage that ...
Family and Friends, Relationship Advice, Tips and Ideas, Wedding Day Advice
October 2, 2006
Can you and your lover fully accept one another? Do you love one another – warts and all? Are you able to appreciate your sweetheart’s little quirks, personal interests, and bodily functions? If you cannot, you aren’t alone. Many couples cannot fully accept or appreciate one another. But wouldn’t it be better if you could? ...
Family and Friends, Relationship Advice, Tips and Ideas